Waiting room

You are sitting, waiting, in a big waiting room

waiting for them to call your child in

Or, waiting for your child to be out of a procedure

You look around at shuffling faces, lost in their thoughts

Some sitting uncomfortably, fidgeting with their iPhones, getting up everytime a staff looks at them

I want to go and make a conversation

But what do I say?

What do I ask?

What can I offer in terms of solace?

What do I share from my experience?

This is one socially awkward place where familiarity doesn't pay, experience doesn't bode well, words of encouragement and hope feel pretentious

How do I strike a conversation?

Do I want to let them know that I have been there and done that just to find out that their pain is greater than mine?

Do I really want to know?

Do they really want to hear what I have to say?

I think I will just stay put, and let them figure it out themselves.